Chizy's definition of a perfect man

I was on Linda Ikeji's blog last week, and she had a post reporting comedian Seyi Law's white wedding. Like most of her wedding/ marraige posts, i expected the usual 'happy married life to them' but instead, there were mostly comments like:

Vanessa said... "congrats to dem....but ds seyi law tk style wowo sha"

Natasha said... "Vanessa u took the words right out of my mouth, lol i was going to say it but as i was seeing all the "Congratulations" and happy "married life" messages, i decided to respect masef lol"

Funny comments they are obviously, but if you check out the rest of their wedding pictures and some of their ordinary pictures on facebook, you can tell the couple look very happy and excited. I have no problem whatsoever with the comments, instead, it inspired this post and really got me thinking ... who is the perfect man? Is he the man that seems perfect in the eye of the world (your family and friends especially) or the one that makes you happy? or do you have to strive hard to find a combination of both, bearing in mind that the Nigerian culture only permits a girl to search between ages of 18 and 25? (of course if you search any earlier you are a bad and untrained child; if it is any later you are expired and family pressure kicks in).

In the news this week (week 7) Pastor Odulele sentenced, 9ice has a new baby ... and more

Envangelist Albert Odulele, who admitted indecently assaulting a boy and sexually assaulting a man has now been jailed for eight months and six months respectively by Woolwich Criwn Court, London, after which he would be on the sex offender's register for 5 years. According to Chanel4 News there were eight alleged victims originally, but they did not want to give statements.

Earlier this week, stories that 9ice's Abuja-based partner Bukky, delivered a baby girl for him floated the internet. Nonetheless, following updates from thenetng it seems she had a set of twins, a boy and a girl.
Toni Payne later tweeted:
"Sum people r so stupid. U av an affair with a married man, he throws his wife n son out in d dead of night, n u think Karma won't get u.lmao"